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Ask Merle: Is “Not Trying, Not Preventing” okay for some people? 6 pointers

Ask Merle: Is “Not Trying, Not Preventing” okay for some people? 6 pointers

by Merle | Mar 3, 2026 | Ask Merle Q&A, Communication, Counseling, Deciding, Fertility, Relationships

  If you’ve responsibly done your research and all of the exploration exercises in The Baby Decision, then is it still cheating to just let nature decide for you by “not trying, not preventing” (NTNP)? As part of my popular “Ask...
New 2025 book picks on childfree vs. parenthood choice, motherhood & more

New 2025 book picks on childfree vs. parenthood choice, motherhood & more

by Merle | Sep 21, 2025 | Book Reviews, Childfree Life, Deciding, Environment, Fertility, Mind/Body, Parenting, Relationships

Welcome to our 2025 book recommendations page, which we update all year with new books in a range of topics related to childfree vs. parenthood decision-making.  Our latest fiction and nonfiction picks delve into topics as diverse as parenthood environmental...
Ask Merle: Now that my first child is older, how do I decide to have another?

Ask Merle: Now that my first child is older, how do I decide to have another?

by Merle | Feb 8, 2025 | Ask Merle Q&A, Deciding, Fertility, Merle in the Media, Parenting

  If you have one or more older children and are now wishing you could relive the baby stage, how do you decide if having another child is a good or bad idea? As part of my popular “Ask Merle” series, I offer advice on this, with four things to...
Updated: Best 2024 books on childfree vs. parenthood decisions – Merle’s reviews

Updated: Best 2024 books on childfree vs. parenthood decisions – Merle’s reviews

by Merle | Dec 13, 2024 | Book Reviews, Childfree Life, Deciding, Environment, Fertility, Mind/Body, Parenting, Relationships

(updated December 2024) Welcome to my 2024 book recommendations page, which I update all year with new books in a range of topics related to childfree vs. parenthood decision-making.  My latest fiction and nonfiction picks delve into topics as diverse as parenthood...
Book review: Fledging is a serious baby decision novel with great humor

Book review: Fledging is a serious baby decision novel with great humor

by Merle | Aug 29, 2024 | Book Reviews, Childfree Life, Deciding, Fertility, Parenting

Congrats to Rose Diell, a talented new author whose first novel Fledging was just published, and features my book review testimonial as a promotional quote.  Here is my full quick review: . Fledging by Rose Diell Renard Press, 2024 Riddle: How did the novelist tell a...
Best 2022 & 2023 books on fertility, parenthood, childfree living, more

Best 2022 & 2023 books on fertility, parenthood, childfree living, more

by Merle | Dec 8, 2023 | Book Reviews, Childfree Life, Deciding, Fertility, Mind/Body, Parenting, Relationships, Single Parenting, Videos & Podcasts

  Here I’m happy to recommend the best 2022 and 2023 baby decision related books on topics like childfree living, fertility, pregnancy, motherhood and parenthood.  I’ve updated this page with more book recommendations, on top of the previous books I...
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