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Ask Merle: How can I trust my childfree choice if I’m sometimes sad about it?

Ask Merle: How can I trust my childfree choice if I’m sometimes sad about it?

by Merle | Apr 2, 2026 | Ask Merle Q&A, Childfree Life, Communication, Counseling, Deciding, Relationships

  If you’ve made your childfree choice after much careful thought and guidance from The Baby Decision, then is it normal to sometimes feel sad about not getting to be a parent, or should you not trust your choice? As part of my popular “Ask...
How to avoid sensitive personal or parenthood questions from family

How to avoid sensitive personal or parenthood questions from family

by Merle | Nov 20, 2025 | Childfree Life, Communication, Deciding, Relationships

  Holidays and other times spent with family or in-laws needn’t fill you with dread — here Merle offers tips and advice on how to avoid or handle questions or comments about your baby or parenthood plans, and other sensitive personal topics. .. by Merle...
New 2025 book picks on childfree vs. parenthood choice, motherhood & more

New 2025 book picks on childfree vs. parenthood choice, motherhood & more

by Merle | Sep 21, 2025 | Book Reviews, Childfree Life, Deciding, Environment, Fertility, Mind/Body, Parenting, Relationships

Welcome to our 2025 book recommendations page, which we update all year with new books in a range of topics related to childfree vs. parenthood decision-making.  Our latest fiction and nonfiction picks delve into topics as diverse as parenthood environmental...
Zeit Q&A with Merle: Why baby decisions steer life decisions & happiness

Zeit Q&A with Merle: Why baby decisions steer life decisions & happiness

by Merle | May 24, 2025 | Ask Merle Q&A, Childfree Life, Deciding, Merle in the Media, Parenting

  When deciding between having a child or being childfree, the most important question is: which decision will you regret least—in order to support your other life goals, values, and happiness?  Here, Merle Bombardieri shares her own story and wisdom for you, as...
Updated: Best 2024 books on childfree vs. parenthood decisions – Merle’s reviews

Updated: Best 2024 books on childfree vs. parenthood decisions – Merle’s reviews

by Merle | Dec 13, 2024 | Book Reviews, Childfree Life, Deciding, Environment, Fertility, Mind/Body, Parenting, Relationships

(updated December 2024) Welcome to my 2024 book recommendations page, which I update all year with new books in a range of topics related to childfree vs. parenthood decision-making.  My latest fiction and nonfiction picks delve into topics as diverse as parenthood...
Merle featured in the UK’s The Sunday Times! Read the story here

Merle featured in the UK’s The Sunday Times! Read the story here

by Merle | Oct 15, 2024 | Announcements, Childfree Life, Communication, Deciding, Merle in the Media, Parenting

What an honor it is to be part of this outstanding feature story in The Sunday Times of the UK, and to be called “America’s ‘baby decision coach!”  Thank you for sharing your personal story, Phoebe Luckhurst — it was a pleasure to coach you and...
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